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When I can not have sex due to excessive pain ?

When I decided to leave my well paying career for further education?

When I get a marriage proposal from my best friend?  

When I had to select a wedding gift for my husband?

When I have to choose tonight party theme?

 When I have to decide on best diet pill?

When I have to French kiss him first time?

When I have to French kiss him first time?

When I have to learn time management to become more productive?

when I have to loose weight and stay slim?

What you should do? – I know it is tough to get on with this reality that your girl, to whom you have known for her birth is telling you that she is lesbian girl. But keeping cool is what matters. You have to accept what she is saying. If she is saying that she is lesbian girl you have to take it as the truth.

 Rather then losing your temper it would be worth asking that what made her to say that she is lesbian girl. It may happen that your girl is just kidding. Kidding not for the sake of kidding but to hurt you, or to take the revenge from you, but you has to control the situation by talking to her.

 A little bit of probing – Indeed it would be much to your help. To know, that whether she is deliberately lying by declaring herself as lesbian girl. These days’ kids are very smart and independent and they can go up-to any limit to hurt you. Therefore, start behaving with them as friend rather then a typical parent.

 A counseling session – If she is not lying, then it is better to take your girl to some counselor. As these matters are very delicate and you need somebody to really tell her that what it means to be lesbian girl. It may happen that she is under influence of somebody and that’s why telling her as lesbian girl.  

Let face the truth and accept it – But even after the counseling session she comes out as the lesbian declaration for her, then only choice would be left with you to accept the truth and let her be like what she is. Scientific studies are showing that it is more related to genes to be a gay or lesbian then the external factor.

 Though it is tough to see your kid as lesbian, but then putting pressure unnecessarily would make things tough for her, so let her be what she is and respect her for what she is keeping aside her sexual orientation. These days kids are very smart and just because she is lesbian you can’t disown your own blood.