When it is no more the
crush for you and your friend and both of you are in the serious love
with the guy. You would be feeling that your so called best
friend is
playing with your feeling by not leaving you and your guy alone.
It may be possible that the
feeling of hatred may swallow your inner piece and love which once you have
been carrying for your friend. A tryst would be going on in the mind which
would take you much far away from your friend. It’s a moment of great pain
to your heart.
You would be swept away with
the questions, that is it you or your friend who is spoilsport in the case.
It may happen that the guy is in love with your friend but may be because of
the pressure from your friend has pushed him towards you. I know it would be
the toughest time for you.
The feeling of crush
may become painful to you and may get bound to feel guilty for having the
crush for the same guy on whom your friend was also having the crush.
But you have to remember this thing that falling in love is a natural
phenomenon and it can’t be avoided if it had happened to you.
If you know that this
crush on the guy is real than be a bold person and let that person know
that it is a real love. And if this feeling is same on the other side also
then there is absolutely no harm in loving that person with. As the saying
goes that “Love those who love you”.
It would be a great thing
for you that the crush in the same person is not the plaything and
it’s actual. But if the reverse is true for your friend also then it’s
better for you to leave that guy for your friend as it would never give
happiness to you if you stick around to this relationship.